Nursing in Church
Nursing in Church
Many
new moms and even not so new moms feel uncomfortable breastfeeding at church
and other public places. They feel torn between attending to the needs of
their baby and being modest.
Nowadays,
there are numerous ways to breastfeed outside the house in such a way that
others have no idea what you are doing. Many home based businesses sell
stylish nursing covers. Some women wear nursing dresses or shirts that
have nursing flaps and slits. Others bring a blanket or wear a sweater to
help them cover up while nursing. Many moms find slings wonderful for
modest nursing and for general comforting of their baby. There is also
the possibility of sitting in your Church's library or even situating yourself
next to your husband in the pew so that you are covered well.
Breastfed
babies are very portable, so attending Mass requires little else besides a
diaper, maybe a change of clothes for baby, and a quiet toy. Actually,
comforting a baby with breastfeeding is a very non-distracting way to quiet a
crying baby and is just what baby wants!
If
you see a mother at Mass with a baby and one or more other children, you can
offer to play quietly with her child(ren) or read to them while she nurses the
baby. Another way to help that is so easy but still important is praising
a nursing mother for her breastfeeding efforts. A positive comment can
literally make someone's day! You can also bring a drink of water to a
nursing mother. New mothers always appreciate meals so why not bring a meal
to a mom who attends your church? One more possibility is to ask your
parish priest if you can set out breastfeeding brochures in the back of
church. Last but definitely not least (probably best!) is to start a nursing mothers ministry in your parish.
(c) Gina M. Peterson, BS, IBCLC 2014
traditionally, a woman breastfeeding was not considered an illicit act; that's what breasts are for afterall. Nonone would turn their head at a milking cow or a feeding puppy litter. The aversion to woman breastfeeding is due to pornographic and youth obsessed culture that promotes vice and sterility. A breastfeeding woman is NOT immodest. Women attending mass with heads uncovered wearing horrible street clothes is the issue.
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